Prudence: Joseph, in his Conduct Toward Mary
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Prudence, a virtue characterized by wisdom, foresight, and careful judgment, is exemplified in the biblical account of Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, particularly in his conduct toward Mary. Joseph's actions, as described in the Gospel of Matthew, reveal a man of deep moral integrity and thoughtful consideration, navigating a complex and potentially scandalous situation with grace and righteousness.

Background Context

Joseph, a descendant of King David, is introduced in the Gospel of Matthew as a righteous man betrothed to Mary (Matthew 1:18). In Jewish custom, betrothal was a binding agreement, more significant than modern-day engagement, requiring a formal divorce to dissolve. During this period, Mary was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit, a revelation that placed Joseph in a challenging position.

Joseph's Initial Response

Upon discovering Mary's pregnancy, Joseph faced a dilemma. The law permitted him to expose Mary to public disgrace or even punishment. However, Joseph's character is revealed in his decision to handle the matter discreetly. Matthew 1:19 states, "Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly." This decision reflects Joseph's prudence, balancing adherence to the law with compassion and mercy.

Divine Intervention and Obedience

Joseph's prudence is further demonstrated when he receives divine guidance through a dream. An angel of the Lord appears to him, saying, "Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit" (Matthew 1:20). The angel instructs Joseph to name the child Jesus, "because he will save his people from their sins" (Matthew 1:21).

Joseph's response to this divine message is immediate and obedient. Matthew 1:24-25 records, "When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus" . Joseph's actions demonstrate his prudence in trusting God's plan and his willingness to protect and honor Mary.

Joseph's Role as Protector and Provider

Throughout the early life of Jesus, Joseph continues to exhibit prudence in his role as protector and provider. After the visit of the Magi, Joseph is again warned in a dream to flee to Egypt to escape Herod's wrath (Matthew 2:13-14). His prompt obedience ensures the safety of the Holy Family. Joseph's prudence is evident in his ability to discern and act upon divine guidance, ensuring the fulfillment of God's purposes.

Conclusion

Joseph's conduct toward Mary is a profound example of prudence in action. His ability to balance justice with mercy, his responsiveness to divine revelation, and his steadfast commitment to his family highlight the depth of his character. Through Joseph's account, believers are reminded of the importance of prudence in navigating life's challenges with wisdom and faithfulness.
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Matthew 1:19
Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a public example, was minded to put her away privately.
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Abraham, his Trial in Egypt; his Humility
... 49]192; contrasted with sensual passion, Joseph an example ... admired for rather than
for his miracles, [52 ... Jonathan, Rebecca, [57]196; Rebecca's conduct, [58]196 ...
/.../abraham his trial in egypt.htm

Critical Notes.
... Joseph Ernest Renan was born Feb.27, 1823, at Treguier ... a few days to restore to him
his divine liberty ... keeping with French politeness or ordinary prudence to say ...
//christianbookshelf.org/schaff/the person of christ/critical notes.htm

Acts ii. 37
... also is needed." Why, what is simplicity, I pray you, but prudence? ... he refers to
v. 46 (as his remark on ... [192] Although he speaks below of Joseph the Patriarch ...
/.../chrysostom/homilies on acts and romans/homily vii acts ii 37.htm

Homilies on the Statues.
... the soul, [661]416; sustains injury in spite of prudence, [662]437 ... Joseph sold,
[1421]363; wept, [1422]488. ... Minister, his people's conduct his glory, [1578]347. ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/chrysostom/on the priesthood/homilies on the statues.htm

Christian Behavior
... all things so, by thy dexterity and prudence, that not ... children; yea, of Christ himself
to Joseph and Mary ... but mocking at one good carriage of his father and ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/christian behavior.htm

Footnotes
... his own description of himself, "a poor Joseph, and prisoner ... 143 [That is, "His will
stands for reason." Juv. ... it should be handled with special prudence and care ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/binning/the works of the rev hugh binning/footnotes.htm

General Index to Sozomen's Ecclesiastical History.
... 2812]400; foils plans of Ga??nas, [2813]401; prudence in governing ... of churches to
fugitives, falls victim to his own order ... Joseph, husband of Mary, [3485]343. ...
/.../general index to sozomens ecclesiastical.htm

Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners:
... be understood literally, as it respects his bad conduct before his ... that unless the
great God, of his infinite grace ... that rather it was my own prudence, thus to ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/grace abounding to the chief.htm

Life and Works of Rufinus with Jerome's Apology Against Rufinus.
... exceeding riches of his grace in kindness toward us in ... avoid reproach through timidity
if not through prudence; and, at ... he at all events can lay his finger on ...
/.../various/life and works of rufinus with jeromes apology against rufinus /

John Bunyan on the Terms of Communion and Fellowship of Christians ...
... upon their minds, and produced an apology for their conduct. ... of the Lord appeared
unto him;"saying, Joseph, thou son ... a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/john bunyan on the terms.htm

Resources
What does the Bible say about applied kinesiology? | GotQuestions.org

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Is “you only live once / YOLO” something a Christian should live by? | GotQuestions.org

Prudence: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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