Verse (Click for Chapter) New International Version Her father will say to the elders, “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he dislikes her. New Living Translation Her father must say to them, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to be his wife, and now he has turned against her. English Standard Version And the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to marry, and he hates her; Berean Standard Bible and say to the elders, “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he has come to hate her. King James Bible And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; New King James Version And the young woman’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as wife, and he detests her. New American Standard Bible And the girl’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as a wife, but he turned against her; NASB 1995 “The girl’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man for a wife, but he turned against her; NASB 1977 “And the girl’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man for a wife, but he turned against her; Legacy Standard Bible Then the girl’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as a wife, but he turned against her; Amplified Bible The father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as a wife, but he hates her and has turned against her; Christian Standard Bible The young woman’s father will say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as a wife, but he hates her. Holman Christian Standard Bible The young woman’s father will say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as a wife, but he hates her. American Standard Version and the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; Contemporary English Version Her father will say, "I let my daughter marry this man, but he started hating her English Revised Version and the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; GOD'S WORD® Translation The girl's father will tell the leaders, "I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he doesn't like her. Good News Translation Her father will say to them, 'I gave my daughter to this man in marriage, and now he doesn't want her. International Standard Version The father of the young lady is to then say to the elders: 'I have given my daughter to this man as a wife, but he despises her. NET Bible The young woman's father must say to the elders, "I gave my daughter to this man and he has rejected her. New Heart English Bible and the young woman's father shall tell the elders, "I gave my daughter to this man to wife, and he hates her; Webster's Bible Translation And the damsel's father shall say to the elders, I gave my daughter to this man for a wife, and he hateth her, Majority Text Translations Majority Standard Bibleand say to the elders, “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he has come to hate her. World English Bible The young lady’s father shall tell the elders, “I gave my daughter to this man as his wife, and he hates her. Literal Translations Literal Standard Versionand the father of the girl has said to the elderly, I have given my daughter to this man for a wife, and he hates her; Young's Literal Translation and the father of the damsel hath said unto the elders, My daughter I have given to this man for a wife, and he doth hate her; Smith's Literal Translation And the father of the maiden said to the old men, I gave my daughter to this man for a wife and he will hate her, Catholic Translations Douay-Rheims BibleAnd the father shall say: I gave my daughter unto this man to wife: and because he hateth her, Catholic Public Domain Version And the father shall say: ‘I gave my daughter to this man as a wife. And because he hates her, New American Bible There the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, “I gave my daughter to this man in marriage, but he has come to dislike her, New Revised Standard Version The father of the young woman shall say to the elders: “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man but he dislikes her; Translations from Aramaic Lamsa BibleAnd the damsel's father shall say to the elders, I gave my daughter to this man to wife, and he hates her; Peshitta Holy Bible Translated And the father of the girl shall say to the Elders: 'I have given my daughter to this man as a wife and he hates her; OT Translations JPS Tanakh 1917And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders: 'I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; Brenton Septuagint Translation And the father of the damsel shall say to the elders, I gave this my daughter to this man for a wife; Additional Translations ... Audio Bible Context Marriage Violations…15Then the young woman’s father and mother shall bring the proof of her virginity to the city elders at the gate 16and say to the elders, “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he has come to hate her. 17And now he has accused her of shameful conduct, saying, ‘I discovered that your daughter was not a virgin.’ But here is the proof of her virginity.” And they shall spread out the cloth before the city elders.… Cross References Genesis 34:12 Demand a high dowry and an expensive gift, and I will give you whatever you ask. Only give me the girl as my wife!” Exodus 22:16-17 If a man seduces a virgin who is not pledged in marriage and sleeps with her, he must pay the full dowry for her to be his wife. / If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, the man still must pay an amount comparable to the bridal price of a virgin. Numbers 30:3-5 And if a woman in her father’s house during her youth makes a vow to the LORD or obligates herself by a pledge, / and her father hears about her vow or pledge but says nothing to her, then all the vows or pledges by which she has bound herself shall stand. / But if her father prohibits her on the day he hears about it, then none of the vows or pledges by which she has bound herself shall stand. The LORD will absolve her because her father has prohibited her. Ruth 4:10 Moreover, I have acquired Ruth the Moabitess, Mahlon’s widow, as my wife, to raise up the name of the deceased through his inheritance, so that his name will not disappear from among his brothers or from the gate of his home. You are witnesses today.” 1 Samuel 18:25 Saul replied, “Say to David, ‘The king desires no other dowry but a hundred Philistine foreskins as revenge on his enemies.’” But Saul intended to cause David’s death at the hands of the Philistines. 2 Samuel 13:13 Where could I ever take my shame? And you would be like one of the fools in Israel! Please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you.” Malachi 2:14 Yet you ask, “Why?” It is because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have broken faith, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. Matthew 1:18-19 This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about: His mother Mary was pledged in marriage to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit. / Because Joseph her husband was a righteous man and was unwilling to disgrace her publicly, he resolved to divorce her quietly. Matthew 5:32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, brings adultery upon her. And he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. Matthew 19:9 Now I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” Mark 10:11-12 So He told them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. / And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” Luke 16:18 Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. John 8:4-5 and said, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. / In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such a woman. So what do You say?” 1 Corinthians 7:2 But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:36-38 However, if someone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his betrothed, and if she is beyond her youth and they ought to marry, let him do as he wishes; he is not sinning; they should get married. / But the man who is firmly established in his heart and under no constraint, with control over his will and resolve in his heart not to marry the virgin, he will do well. / So then, he who marries the virgin does well, but he who does not marry her does even better. Treasury of Scripture And the damsel's father shall say to the elders, I gave my daughter to this man to wife, and he hates her; Jump to Previous Damsel Damsel's Daughter Dislikes Elders Hate Hates Hateth Lady's Marriage Responsible Spurns Turned Wife YoungJump to Next Damsel Damsel's Daughter Dislikes Elders Hate Hates Hateth Lady's Marriage Responsible Spurns Turned Wife YoungDeuteronomy 22 1. Of humanity toward brothers5. The sex is to be distinguished by apparel 6. The bird is not to be taken with her young ones 8. The house must have battlements 9. Confusion is to be avoided 12. Tassels upon the vesture 13. The punishment of him who slanders his wife 22. of adultery 23. of rape 28. of fornication 30. of incest and say to the elders In ancient Israel, the elders were respected leaders and decision-makers within the community, often serving as judges in legal matters. This reflects the communal nature of society, where disputes were resolved publicly. The role of elders is seen throughout the Old Testament, such as in Ruth 4:1-2, where Boaz addresses the elders at the city gate. The involvement of elders underscores the importance of maintaining justice and order according to God's law. I gave my daughter in marriage to this man but he has come to hate her Persons / Places / Events 1. The Young Woman's FatherRepresents the authority and protector of the daughter in ancient Israelite society. He is responsible for addressing grievances related to his daughter's marriage. 2. The Elders Community leaders who serve as judges or arbiters in disputes. They hold a position of authority and are responsible for maintaining justice and order within the community. 3. The Young Woman The subject of the marriage dispute. Her well-being and reputation are central to the proceedings described in this passage. 4. The Husband The man who has married the young woman and is accused of hating her, which implies a breach of marital commitment and potential injustice. 5. The Marriage A covenantal relationship that is central to the social and religious fabric of Israelite society. The passage addresses the sanctity and responsibilities inherent in this union. Teaching Points The Role of Family and Community in MarriageThe involvement of the father and elders highlights the communal nature of marriage in biblical times. Families and communities play a crucial role in supporting and holding accountable the marital relationship. The Sanctity of Marriage Marriage is a sacred covenant that requires love, respect, and commitment. The accusation of hatred in this passage serves as a warning against neglecting these responsibilities. Justice and Protection for the Vulnerable The passage underscores the importance of justice and protection for those who may be vulnerable or wronged in a relationship. The community is called to uphold righteousness and defend the innocent. Addressing Marital Conflicts Conflicts in marriage should be addressed openly and justly, with the aim of reconciliation and restoration. The involvement of elders suggests the need for wise counsel and mediation. The Importance of Truth and Integrity The father's declaration to the elders emphasizes the need for truthfulness and integrity in resolving disputes. Honesty is essential in maintaining trust and justice within the community. Lists and Questions Top 10 Lessons from Deuteronomy 22Who is Jacob, also known as Israel? What does the Bible say about women's rights? Why does Deuteronomy 22:13-21 prescribe a severe punishment if a bride is found not to be a virgin? Why does the Bible say a woman must marry her rapist (Deuteronomy 22:28-29)? Parallel Commentaries ... Hebrew [and]הַֽנַּעַרָ֖ה (han·na·‘ă·rāh) Article | Noun - feminine singular Strong's 5291: A girl, maiden say וְאָמַ֛ר (wə·’ā·mar) Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Conjunctive perfect - third person masculine singular Strong's 559: To utter, say to אֶל־ (’el-) Preposition Strong's 413: Near, with, among, to the elders, הַזְּקֵנִ֑ים (haz·zə·qê·nîm) Article | Adjective - masculine plural Strong's 2205: Old “I gave נָתַ֜תִּי (nā·ṯat·tî) Verb - Qal - Perfect - first person common singular Strong's 5414: To give, put, set my daughter בִּתִּ֗י (bit·tî) Noun - feminine singular construct | first person common singular Strong's 1323: A daughter in marriage לְאִשָּׁ֖ה (lə·’iš·šāh) Preposition-l | Noun - feminine singular Strong's 802: Woman, wife, female to this הַזֶּ֛ה (haz·zeh) Article | Pronoun - masculine singular Strong's 2088: This, that man, לָאִ֥ישׁ (lā·’îš) Preposition-l, Article | Noun - masculine singular Strong's 376: A man as an individual, a male person but he has come to hate her. וַיִּשְׂנָאֶֽהָ׃ (way·yiś·nā·’e·hā) Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person masculine singular | third person feminine singular Strong's 8130: To hate Links Deuteronomy 22:16 NIVDeuteronomy 22:16 NLT Deuteronomy 22:16 ESV Deuteronomy 22:16 NASB Deuteronomy 22:16 KJV Deuteronomy 22:16 BibleApps.com Deuteronomy 22:16 Biblia Paralela Deuteronomy 22:16 Chinese Bible Deuteronomy 22:16 French Bible Deuteronomy 22:16 Catholic Bible OT Law: Deuteronomy 22:16 And the young lady's father shall tell (Deut. 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