Job 19:14
New International Version
My relatives have gone away; my closest friends have forgotten me.

New Living Translation
My family is gone, and my close friends have forgotten me.

English Standard Version
My relatives have failed me, my close friends have forgotten me.

Berean Standard Bible
My kinsmen have failed me, and my friends have forgotten me.

King James Bible
My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.

New King James Version
My relatives have failed, And my close friends have forgotten me.

New American Standard Bible
“My relatives have failed, And my close friends have forgotten me.

NASB 1995
“My relatives have failed, And my intimate friends have forgotten me.

NASB 1977
“My relatives have failed, And my intimate friends have forgotten me.

Legacy Standard Bible
My relatives have failed, And my familiar friends have forgotten me.

Amplified Bible
“My relatives have failed [me], And my intimate friends have forgotten me.

Christian Standard Bible
My relatives stop coming by, and my close friends have forgotten me.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
My relatives stop coming by, and my close friends have forgotten me.

American Standard Version
My kinsfolk have failed, And my familiar friends have forgotten me.

Contemporary English Version
and I am forgotten.

English Revised Version
My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
My relatives and my closest friends have stopped coming. My house guests have forgotten me.

Good News Translation
my relatives and friends are gone.

International Standard Version
my relatives have failed me; and my friends have abandoned me.

Majority Standard Bible
My kinsmen have failed me, and my friends have forgotten me.

NET Bible
My kinsmen have failed me; my friends have forgotten me.

New Heart English Bible
My relatives have gone away. My familiar friends have forgotten me.

Webster's Bible Translation
My kinsmen have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.

World English Bible
My relatives have gone away. My familiar friends have forgotten me.
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
My neighbors have ceased "" And my familiar friends have forgotten me,

Young's Literal Translation
Ceased have my neighbours And my familiar friends have forgotten me,

Smith's Literal Translation
My kindred ceased, and they acquainted with me forgot me.
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
My kinsmen have forsaken me, and they that knew me, have forgotten me.

Catholic Public Domain Version
My kinsmen have forsaken me, and those who knew me, have forgotten me.

New American Bible
My relatives and companions neglect me, my guests have forgotten me.

New Revised Standard Version
My relatives and my close friends have failed me;
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
My kinsfolk have failed me, and my familiar friends have forsaken me.

Peshitta Holy Bible Translated
My neighbors are cut off from my presence and my acquaintances have forgotten me
OT Translations
JPS Tanakh 1917
My kinsfolk have failed, And my familiar friends have forgotten me.

Brenton Septuagint Translation
My nearest of kin have not acknowledged me, and they that knew my name, have forgotten me.

Additional Translations ...
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Context
Job: My Redeemer Lives
13He has removed my brothers from me; my acquaintances have abandoned me. 14My kinsmen have failed me, and my friends have forgotten me. 15My guests and maidservants count me as a stranger; I am a foreigner in their sight.…

Cross References
Psalm 38:11
My beloved and friends shun my disease, and my kinsmen stand at a distance.

Psalm 88:18
You have removed my beloved and my friend; darkness is my closest companion.

Proverbs 19:7
All the brothers of a poor man hate him—how much more do his friends avoid him! He may pursue them with pleading, but they are nowhere to be found.

Lamentations 1:2
She weeps aloud in the night, with tears upon her cheeks. Among all her lovers there is no one to comfort her. All her friends have betrayed her; they have become her enemies.

Lamentations 1:19
I called out to my lovers, but they have betrayed me. My priests and elders perished in the city while they searched for food to keep themselves alive.

Micah 7:5-6
Do not rely on a friend; do not trust in a companion. Seal the doors of your mouth from her who lies in your arms. / For a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. A man’s enemies are the members of his own household.

Matthew 10:21
Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rise against their parents and have them put to death.

Matthew 10:35-36
For I have come to turn ‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. / A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’

Luke 12:52-53
From now on, five in one household will be divided, three against two and two against three. / They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”

John 7:5
For even His own brothers did not believe in Him.

John 16:32
“Look, an hour is coming and has already come when you will be scattered, each to his own home, and you will leave Me all alone. Yet I am not alone, because the Father is with Me.

2 Timothy 4:16
At my first defense, no one stood with me, but everyone deserted me. May it not be charged against them.

Psalm 31:11
Among all my enemies I am a disgrace, and among my neighbors even more. I am dreaded by my friends—they flee when they see me on the street.

Psalm 69:8
I have become a stranger to my brothers and a foreigner to my mother’s sons,

Isaiah 49:15
“Can a woman forget her nursing child, or lack compassion for the son of her womb? Even if she could forget, I will not forget you!


Treasury of Scripture

My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.

kinsfolk

Psalm 38:11
My lovers and my friends stand aloof from my sore; and my kinsmen stand afar off.

Proverbs 18:24
A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Micah 7:5,6
Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom…

familiar

2 Samuel 16:23
And the counsel of Ahithophel, which he counselled in those days, was as if a man had inquired at the oracle of God: so was all the counsel of Ahithophel both with David and with Absalom.

Psalm 55:12-14
For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him: …

Jeremiah 20:10
For I heard the defaming of many, fear on every side. Report, say they, and we will report it. All my familiars watched for my halting, saying, Peradventure he will be enticed, and we shall prevail against him, and we shall take our revenge on him.

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My kinsmen have failed me
In the ancient Near Eastern culture, family ties were of utmost importance, providing social, economic, and emotional support. Job's lament about his kinsmen failing him highlights the depth of his isolation and suffering. This failure of family support is significant, as it underscores the complete abandonment Job feels. In biblical context, family was expected to be a source of refuge and strength, as seen in the story of Ruth and Naomi. Job's experience can be contrasted with the faithfulness of family members in other biblical narratives, emphasizing the severity of his plight. This phrase also foreshadows the ultimate abandonment Jesus experienced, as prophesied in Isaiah 53:3, where He is described as "despised and rejected by men."

and my friends have forgotten me
Job's friends, who initially came to comfort him, have instead become a source of further distress. This phrase reflects the failure of human companionship and the loneliness that can accompany suffering. In the cultural context, friendship was a covenant relationship, often involving loyalty and mutual support. The forgetfulness of Job's friends can be seen as a betrayal of this covenant, paralleling the betrayal Jesus experienced from His disciples, particularly Judas Iscariot. This abandonment by friends is a recurring theme in Scripture, as seen in Psalm 41:9, where David laments a similar betrayal. Job's experience serves as a type of Christ, who was also forsaken by those closest to Him in His time of need.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Job
A man described as blameless and upright, who feared God and shunned evil. He is the central figure in the Book of Job, experiencing intense suffering and loss.

2. Kinsmen
Refers to Job's relatives or family members. In the context of ancient Hebrew culture, family ties were crucial for support and identity.

3. Friends
Job's companions who initially come to comfort him but later engage in dialogues that question his integrity and suggest his suffering is due to sin.

4. Uz
The land where Job lived, often associated with the region east of Israel, possibly in Edom or northern Arabia.

5. Suffering
The overarching event in Job's life during this period, characterized by loss of wealth, health, and family, leading to profound isolation.
Teaching Points
The Pain of Abandonment
Job's lament highlights the deep emotional pain caused by the abandonment of those closest to us. It serves as a reminder of the importance of being present and supportive to those in distress.

The Imperfection of Human Relationships
Human relationships, even with family and friends, can fail us. This points us to the necessity of relying on God, who is unfailing and ever-present.

God's Faithfulness Amidst Isolation
While Job feels forgotten by his friends and family, the broader account of Scripture assures us that God never forgets or forsakes His people.

Empathy and Support in Community
As believers, we are called to be a source of comfort and support to those who are suffering, reflecting God's love and faithfulness.

The Role of Suffering in Spiritual Growth
Job's experience invites us to consider how suffering can deepen our reliance on God and refine our character, even when human support is lacking.Verse 14. - My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me (see Psalm 41:9).

Parallel Commentaries ...


Hebrew
My kinsmen
קְרוֹבָ֑י (qə·rō·w·ḇāy)
Adjective - masculine plural construct | first person common singular
Strong's 7138: Near

have failed me,
חָדְל֥וּ (ḥā·ḏə·lū)
Verb - Qal - Perfect - third person common plural
Strong's 2308: To be flabby, desist, be lacking, idle

and my friends
וּֽמְיֻדָּעַ֥י (ū·mə·yud·dā·‘ay)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Pual - Participle - masculine plural construct | first person common singular
Strong's 3045: To know

have forgotten me.
שְׁכֵחֽוּנִי׃ (šə·ḵê·ḥū·nî)
Verb - Qal - Perfect - third person common plural | first person common singular
Strong's 7911: To mislay, to be oblivious of, from want of memory, attention


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