Marriage and Love
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Marriage

Marriage, as instituted by God, is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman. It is designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and the Church, serving as a foundational institution for human society. The Bible provides numerous insights into the nature, purpose, and sanctity of marriage.

The origin of marriage is found in the creation narrative. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the divine intention for marriage to be a lifelong union, characterized by unity and intimacy.

The New Testament further elaborates on the sanctity of marriage. In Ephesians 5:31-32 , Paul echoes the Genesis account, stating, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church." Here, marriage is elevated to a spiritual metaphor, illustrating the profound connection between Christ and His followers.

Marriage is also portrayed as a partnership. In Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 , the benefits of companionship are highlighted: "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. For if one falls, the other will lift up his companion. But woe to him who falls and has no one to help him up." This passage emphasizes the mutual support and strength found in a marital relationship.

The Bible also addresses the roles and responsibilities within marriage. Ephesians 5:22-25 instructs, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." These verses highlight the complementary roles of husbands and wives, rooted in love and respect.

Love

Love is a central theme in the Bible, intricately connected to the concept of marriage. It is both a command and a gift from God, serving as the foundation for all relationships, especially the marital bond.

The Bible's most famous passage on love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 : "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." This passage provides a comprehensive description of love's attributes, serving as a guide for marital relationships.

In the context of marriage, love is sacrificial and unconditional. Ephesians 5:25 commands husbands to "love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This sacrificial love is the highest standard, reflecting Christ's selfless devotion to His people.

The Song of Solomon, a poetic book in the Old Testament, celebrates romantic love and the joy of marital intimacy. In Song of Solomon 8:6-7 , love is described as powerful and unyielding: "Set me as a seal over your heart, as a seal upon your arm. For love is as strong as death, its jealousy as unyielding as the grave. Its sparks are fiery flames, the fiercest blaze of all. Mighty waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away." This vivid imagery captures the intensity and permanence of true love.

The Bible also teaches that love is a fruit of the Spirit, as seen in Galatians 5:22 : "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness." This indicates that love is not merely a human emotion but a divine attribute cultivated by the Holy Spirit within believers.

In summary, marriage and love are deeply intertwined in the biblical narrative, reflecting God's design for human relationships. Marriage is a covenantal union that mirrors Christ's relationship with the Church, while love is the essential quality that sustains and enriches this sacred bond.
Topical Bible Verses
Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
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Library

Of the Love of Offspring as a Plea for Marriage.
... Book I. Chapter V."Of the Love of Offspring as a Plea for Marriage. Further
reasons for marriage which men allege for themselves ...
//christianbookshelf.org/tertullian/to his wife/chapter v of the love of.htm

That Love Rules Over all the Affections, and Passions, and Even ...
... carnal, if this be spiritual she is spiritual, and all the affections of desire,
joy, hope, fear, grief, as children born of the marriage between love and the ...
/.../francis/treatise on the love of god/chapter iv that love rules.htm

The Marriage of Christian Hearts.
... Only His work standeth fast,. When nought else endures the blast. See the children
of His love. Who in holy marriage dwell,. In what tranquil joy they move,. ...
/.../winkworth/christian singers of germany/the marriage of christian hearts.htm

At the Marriage Feast
... loved disciple. Both at the marriage feast and upon the cross, the love
expressed in tone and look and manner interpreted His words. ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/white/the desire of ages/chapter 15 at the marriage.htm

The Adornment of the Spritual Marriage
... Title Page. INTRODUCTION. THE ADORNMENT OF THE SPIRITUAL MARRIAGE: THE FIRST BOOK.
PROLOGUE. ... CHAPTER XI. OF SENSIBLE LOVE. CHAPTER XII. OF DEVOTION. CHAPTER XIII ...
//christianbookshelf.org/john/the adornment of the spritual marriage/

Of Sensible Love
The Adornment of the Spritual Marriage. <. ... THE SECOND BOOK CHAPTER
XI. OF SENSIBLE LOVE. From inwardness there springs ...
/.../john/the adornment of the spritual marriage/chapter xi of sensible love.htm

The Marriage of Cana
... by the cords of love to come in. For our master's house must and shall be filled.
He will not shed his gracious blood in vain. Come then, come to the marriage. ...
/.../whitefield/selected sermons of george whitefield/the marriage of cana.htm

How Good Men in their Contemplation have the Love of God Before ...
The Adornment of the Spritual Marriage. <. ... THE BOOK OF SUPREME TRUTH CHAPTER
XI. HOW GOOD MEN IN THEIR CONTEMPLATION HAVE THE LOVE OF GOD BEFORE THEM ...
/.../john/the adornment of the spritual marriage/chapter xi how good men.htm

Of the Pain and Restlessness of Love
The Adornment of the Spritual Marriage. <. ... THE SECOND BOOK CHAPTER
XXIII. OF THE PAIN AND RESTLESSNESS OF LOVE. Of this ...
/.../john/the adornment of the spritual marriage/chapter xxiii of the pain.htm

On the Words of the Gospel, Matt. xxii. 2, Etc. , About the ...
... And yet those guests of the Householder at the King's marriage, were not I ... often
they who are partakers together of an evil conscience seem to love one another ...
/.../sermons on selected lessons of the new testament/sermon xl on the words.htm

Resources
What is the validity of marriage in today's world? | GotQuestions.org

If marriage is so difficult, why should I even consider it? | GotQuestions.org

What biblical principles should be applied to a Christian marriage ceremony? | GotQuestions.org

Marriage: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Biracial Marriage

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Marriage

Marriage After Death

Marriage After Divorce

Marriage and Divorce

Marriage and Finances

Marriage and Love

Marriage Covenant

Marriage in Heaven

Marriage Reconciliation

Marriage Relationship

Marriage Separation

Marriage Vows

Marriage: A Benediction Pronounced After

Marriage: A Covenant Relationship

Marriage: A Dowry Given to the Woman's Parents Before

Marriage: A Herald Preceded the Bridegroom

Marriage: Advised

Marriage: Betrothal a Quasi-Marriage

Marriage: Betrothal Made With the Spirit

Marriage: Bridal Ornaments

Marriage: Bridal Presents

Marriage: Celebrated for Seven Days

Marriage: Celebrated with Feasting

Marriage: Celebrated with Great Rejoicing

Marriage: Celibacy Deplored

Marriage: Ceremony Attested by Witnesses

Marriage: Christ's Union With his Church

Marriage: Consanguinous, Abraham and Sarah

Marriage: Consent of the Parties Necessary To

Marriage: Contracted at the Gate and Before Witnesses

Marriage: Contracted in Patriarchal Age With Near Relations

Marriage: Daughters Given In, As Rewards of Valor

Marriage: David Gave One Hundred Philistine Foreskins for a Wife

Marriage: Designed For: Increasing the Human Population

Marriage: Designed For: Preventing Fornication

Marriage: Designed For: Raising up Godly Seed

Marriage: Designed For: The Happiness of Man

Marriage: Divinely Instituted

Marriage: Early Introduction of Polygamy

Marriage: Elder Daughters Usually Given In, Before the Younger

Marriage: Expressed by Giving Daughters to Sons, and Sons to Daughters

Marriage: Expressed by Joining Together

Marriage: Expressed by Making Affinity

Marriage: Expressed by Taking to Wife

Marriage: Figurative

Marriage: Garments Provided for Guests At

Marriage: Given by Kings

Marriage: God's Union With the Jewish Nation

Marriage: Honorable for All

Marriage: Indissoluble During the Joint Lives of the Parties

Marriage: Infidelity of Those Contracted In, Punished As If Married

Marriage: Isaac and Rebekah

Marriage: Jacob and his Wives

Marriage: Jesus Present At

Marriage: Lawful in All

Marriage: Levirate (The Brother Required to Marry a Brother's Widow)

Marriage: Modes of Demanding Women In

Marriage: Not Binding After Death

Marriage: Nuptial Feasts

Marriage: Obligations Under, Inferior to Duty to God

Marriage: Often Contracted by Parents for Children

Marriage: Parables From

Marriage: Parents' Consent Requires in the Mosaic Law

Marriage: Parents Contract for Their Children: Abraham for Isaac

Marriage: Parents Contract for Their Children: Hagar Selects a Wife for Ishmael

Marriage: Parents Contract for Their Children: Laban Arranges for his Daughters' Marriage

Marriage: Parents Contract for Their Children: Samson Asks his Parents to Procure Him a Wife

Marriage: Parents Might Refuse to Give Their Children In

Marriage: Presents Given to Parents to Secure Their Favor

Marriage: Priest not to Contract, With Divorced or Improper Persons

Marriage: should be Only in the Lord

Marriage: should be With Consent of Parents

Marriage: The Bride: Adorned With Jewels For

Marriage: The Bride: Attended by Bridesmaids

Marriage: The Bride: Called to Forget Her Father's House

Marriage: The Bride: Given a Handmaid At

Marriage: The Bride: Gorgeously Apparelled

Marriage: The Bride: Received Presents Before

Marriage: The Bride: Stood on the Right of Bridegroom

Marriage: The Bridegroom: Adorned With Ornaments

Marriage: The Bridegroom: Attended by Many Friends

Marriage: The Bridegroom: Crowned With Garlands

Marriage: The Bridegroom: Presented With Gifts

Marriage: The Bridegroom: Rejoiced Over the Bride

Marriage: The Bridegroom: Returned With the Bride to his House at Night

Marriage: The Expectation of the Promised Seed of the Woman An

Marriage: The Groom Exempt One Year from Military Duty

Marriage: The High Priest not to Contract, With a Widow or a Divorced

Marriage: The Jews were Allowed Divorce From, Because of Hardness of Their

Marriage: The Jews: Betrothed Themselves some Time Before

Marriage: The Jews: Careful in Contracting for Their Children

Marriage: The Jews: Considered Being Debarred From, a Cause of Grief

Marriage: The Jews: Considered Being Debarred From, a Reproach

Marriage: The Jews: Contracted when Young

Marriage: The Jews: Exempted from Going to War Immediately After

Marriage: The Jews: Forbidden to Contract With Idolaters

Marriage: The Jews: Forbidden to Contract, With Their Near Relations

Marriage: The Jews: Obliged to Contract With a Brother's Wife Who Died Without

Marriage: The Jews: Often Contracted With Foreigners

Marriage: The Jews: Often Contracted, in Their own Tribe

Marriage: The Jews: Often Punished by Being Debarred From

Marriage: The Jews: Sometimes Guilty of Polygamy

Marriage: Unclassified Scriptures Relating To

Marriage: Wedding Robes Adorned With Jewels

Marriage: Wives Among the Israelites Must be Israelites

Marriage: Wives Obtained by Kidnapping

Marriage: Wives Obtained by Purchase

Marriage: Wives Taken by Edict

Matrimony

Remarriage

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Marriage-feasts (6 Occurrences)

Marriage-feast (4 Occurrences)

Marriage-song (1 Occurrence)

Jezebel (20 Occurrences)

Espouse (2 Occurrences)

Samson (37 Occurrences)

Espousal

Marry (48 Occurrences)

Brother's (46 Occurrences)

Isaac (127 Occurrences)

Wedding (24 Occurrences)

Banquet (58 Occurrences)

Invited (49 Occurrences)

Marriagefeasts

Match (4 Occurrences)

Betroth (5 Occurrences)

Affinity (4 Occurrences)

Polygamy

Tobit

Brother (402 Occurrences)

Anaharath (1 Occurrence)

Brethren (528 Occurrences)

Dowry (5 Occurrences)

Betrothed (19 Occurrences)

Bidden (25 Occurrences)

Cana (4 Occurrences)

Ahab (85 Occurrences)

Feast (209 Occurrences)

Ruth (19 Occurrences)

Women (328 Occurrences)

Bride-chamber (3 Occurrences)

Sarah (38 Occurrences)

Divorce (18 Occurrences)

Lord (59401 Occurrences)

Join (70 Occurrences)

Abstinence (2 Occurrences)

Woman (4043 Occurrences)

Alliance (12 Occurrences)

Wife (437 Occurrences)

Yokefellow

Purity (16 Occurrences)

Virginity (12 Occurrences)

Keturah (4 Occurrences)

Kindred (41 Occurrences)

Nuptial (1 Occurrence)

Veil (67 Occurrences)

Noe (6 Occurrences)

Unpolluted (1 Occurrence)

Undefiled (7 Occurrences)

Laban (52 Occurrences)

Giveth (378 Occurrences)

Wedlock (1 Occurrence)

Intermarry (5 Occurrences)

Flood (70 Occurrences)

Father (11359 Occurrences)

Fornicators (8 Occurrences)

Totemism

Refrains (3 Occurrences)

Reclining (25 Occurrences)

Ready (451 Occurrences)

Dionysia

Marrying (7 Occurrences)

Messengers (182 Occurrences)

Prepared (246 Occurrences)

Bid (35 Occurrences)

Betrothal (1 Occurrence)

Clothes (208 Occurrences)

Abstain (13 Occurrences)

Achsah (5 Occurrences)

Allied (13 Occurrences)

Slaves (119 Occurrences)

Relationships (1 Occurrence)

Taste (46 Occurrences)

Code (6 Occurrences)

Choose (116 Occurrences)

Angels (99 Occurrences)

Chosen (197 Occurrences)

Sojourner (81 Occurrences)

Marriage and Holiness
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