Proverbs 21:14
New International Version
A gift given in secret soothes anger, and a bribe concealed in the cloak pacifies great wrath.

New Living Translation
A secret gift calms anger; a bribe under the table pacifies fury.

English Standard Version
A gift in secret averts anger, and a concealed bribe, strong wrath.

Berean Standard Bible
A gift in secret soothes anger, and a covert bribe pacifies great wrath.

King James Bible
A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath.

New King James Version
A gift in secret pacifies anger, And a bribe behind the back, strong wrath.

New American Standard Bible
A gift in secret subdues anger, And a bribe in an inside pocket, strong wrath.

NASB 1995
A gift in secret subdues anger, And a bribe in the bosom, strong wrath.

NASB 1977
A gift in secret subdues anger, And a bribe in the bosom, strong wrath.

Legacy Standard Bible
A gift in secret subdues anger, And a bribe in the bosom, strong wrath.

Amplified Bible
A gift in secret subdues anger, And a bribe [hidden] in the pocket, strong wrath.

Christian Standard Bible
A secret gift soothes anger, and a covert bribe, fierce rage.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
A secret gift soothes anger, and a covert bribe, fierce rage.

American Standard Version
A gift in secret pacifieth anger; And a present in the bosom, strong wrath.

Contemporary English Version
A secret bribe will save you from someone's fierce anger.

English Revised Version
A gift in secret pacifieth anger, and a present in the bosom strong wrath.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
A gift [given] in secret calms anger, and a secret bribe calms great fury.

Good News Translation
If someone is angry with you, a gift given secretly will calm him down.

International Standard Version
Privately given gifts pacify wrath, and payments made secretly appease great anger.

Majority Standard Bible
A gift in secret soothes anger, and a covert bribe pacifies great wrath.

NET Bible
A gift given in secret subdues anger, and a bribe given secretly subdues strong wrath.

New Heart English Bible
A gift in secret pacifies anger; and a bribe in the cloak, strong wrath.

Webster's Bible Translation
A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom, strong wrath.

World English Bible
A gift in secret pacifies anger, and a bribe in the cloak, strong wrath.
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
A gift in secret pacifies anger, "" And a bribe in the bosom—strong fury.

Young's Literal Translation
A gift in secret pacifieth anger, And a bribe in the bosom strong fury.

Smith's Literal Translation
Giving in secret will subdue anger: and a gift in the bosom, strong wrath.
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
A secret present quencheth anger: and a gift in the bosom the greatest wrath.

Catholic Public Domain Version
A surprise gift extinguishes anger. And a gift concealed in the bosom extinguishes the greatest indignation.

New American Bible
A secret gift allays anger, and a present concealed, violent wrath.

New Revised Standard Version
A gift in secret averts anger; and a concealed bribe in the bosom, strong wrath.
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
A gift in secret pacifies anger; but he who is sparing with his gifts stirs wrath.

Peshitta Holy Bible Translated
A gift in secret removes wrath and he that spares giving arouses anger.
OT Translations
JPS Tanakh 1917
A gift in secret pacifieth anger, And a present in the bosom strong wrath.

Brenton Septuagint Translation
A secret gift calms anger: but he that forbears to give stirs up strong wrath.

Additional Translations ...
Audio Bible



Context
The King's Heart
13Whoever shuts his ears to the cry of the poor, he too shall cry out and receive no answer. 14A gift in secret soothes anger, and a covert bribe pacifies great wrath. 15Justice executed is a joy to the righteous, but a terror to the workers of iniquity.…

Cross References
Matthew 5:23-24
So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, / leave your gift there before the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.

Genesis 32:20-21
You are also to say, ‘Look, your servant Jacob is right behind us.’” For he thought, “I will appease Esau with the gift that is going before me. After that I can face him, and perhaps he will accept me.” / So Jacob’s gifts went on before him, while he spent the night in the camp.

1 Samuel 25:18-35
Then Abigail hurried and took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five butchered sheep, five seahs of roasted grain, a hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs. She loaded them on donkeys / and said to her young men, “Go ahead of me. I will be right behind you.” But she did not tell her husband Nabal. / As Abigail came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, she saw David and his men coming down toward her, and she met them. ...

James 5:16
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man has great power to prevail.

2 Corinthians 9:7
Each one should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not out of regret or compulsion. For God loves a cheerful giver.

Genesis 33:10-11
But Jacob insisted, “No, please! If I have found favor in your sight, then receive this gift from my hand. For indeed, I have seen your face, and it is like seeing the face of God, since you have received me favorably. / Please accept my gift that was brought to you, because God has been gracious to me and I have all I need.” So Jacob pressed him until he accepted.

Luke 16:9
I tell you, use worldly wealth to make friends for yourselves so that when it is gone, they will welcome you into eternal dwellings.

1 Peter 4:8
Above all, love one another deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

Proverbs 18:16
A man’s gift opens doors for him, and brings him before great men.

Matthew 6:1-4
“Be careful not to perform your righteous acts before men to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. / So when you give to the needy, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by men. Truly I tell you, they already have their full reward. / But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, ...

1 John 3:18
Little children, let us love not in word and speech, but in action and truth.

Proverbs 17:8
A bribe is a charm to its giver; wherever he turns, he succeeds.

Luke 12:33-34
Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide yourselves with purses that will not wear out, an inexhaustible treasure in heaven, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys. / For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Romans 12:20
On the contrary, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head.”

Ecclesiastes 10:4
If the ruler’s temper flares against you, do not abandon your post, for calmness lays great offenses to rest.


Treasury of Scripture

A gift in secret pacifies anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath.

gift

Proverbs 21:17,8,23
He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man: he that loveth wine and oil shall not be rich…

Proverbs 18:16
A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.

Proverbs 19:6
Many will intreat the favour of the prince: and every man is a friend to him that giveth gifts.

in secret

Matthew 6:3,4
But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: …

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A gift in secret soothes anger
In ancient Near Eastern culture, gift-giving was a common practice to maintain peace and harmony in relationships. The act of giving a gift in secret suggests a discreet approach to resolving conflicts, emphasizing humility and the desire to mend relationships without seeking public recognition. This aligns with the biblical principle of humility and peacemaking, as seen in Matthew 5:9, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." The concept of a secret gift can also be connected to Jesus' teaching in Matthew 6:3-4 about giving in secret, which underscores the importance of sincerity and the heart's intention over public acknowledgment.

and a covert bribe pacifies great wrath
The term "covert bribe" here is not an endorsement of unethical behavior but rather an observation of human nature and societal practices. In the historical context, bribes were often used to influence decisions and outcomes, a practice that was prevalent in many ancient cultures, including Israel. The Bible frequently warns against corruption and injustice, as seen in Exodus 23:8, "Do not accept a bribe, for a bribe blinds those who see and twists the words of the innocent." However, this proverb acknowledges the reality that such actions can temporarily defuse intense anger or wrath. It serves as a cautionary note about the power of material influence and the potential moral compromise involved. The phrase also highlights the need for wisdom and discernment in navigating complex social interactions, echoing the broader biblical theme of seeking God's guidance in all matters.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Solomon
Traditionally attributed as the author of Proverbs, Solomon was the son of King David and known for his wisdom. His insights into human behavior and relationships are reflected in this verse.

2. Ancient Israel
The cultural and historical context of this proverb is rooted in ancient Israel, where social and legal systems often involved personal interactions and negotiations.

3. Gift-giving
In the context of this verse, gift-giving is a practice used to influence emotions and resolve conflicts, a common custom in ancient Near Eastern cultures.
Teaching Points
The Power of Discretion
The verse highlights the importance of discretion in resolving conflicts. A gift given in secret can be a wise and tactful way to soothe anger without causing public embarrassment or further conflict.

Understanding Human Nature
Recognizing that people can be influenced by thoughtful gestures helps us navigate relationships more effectively. This understanding can lead to more harmonious interactions.

Ethical Considerations
While the verse acknowledges the effectiveness of gifts in pacifying anger, it also raises questions about the ethics of such actions. Believers are encouraged to consider the motives and potential consequences of their actions.

Conflict Resolution
The principle of using gifts to soothe anger can be applied in modern contexts as a metaphor for using kindness and generosity to resolve disputes and build bridges.

Wisdom in Relationships
Applying wisdom in our interactions, as Solomon advises, can lead to more peaceful and productive relationships. This involves being thoughtful and intentional in our actions.(14) A gift in secret.--Comp. Abigail and David (1Samuel 25:18).

Verse 14. - A gift in secret pacifieth anger. We have had above various maxims about bribes and presents; e.g. Proverbs 17:8, 23; Proverbs 18:16. The word translated "pacifieth" is from the ἅπαξ λεγόμενον verb כֵפָה, "to turn away," "avert." Septuagint, ἀνατρέπει; Vulgate, extinguit; Venetian, κάμψει. A gift offered secretly to one incensed, whether personal enemy, judge, or prince, averts the consequences of the offence. The next hemistich is parallel in meaning. And a reward (present) in the bosom strong wrath. A present kept handy in the bosom of the petitioner's garment, ready to be transferred at a fitting moment, as experience proves, calms the most violent wrath. Septuagint, "He that is sparing of gifts amuses strong wrath."

Parallel Commentaries ...


Hebrew
A gift
מַתָּ֣ן (mat·tān)
Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 4976: A present

in secret
בַּ֭סֵּתֶר (bas·sê·ṯer)
Preposition-b, Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 5643: A covering, hiding place, secrecy

soothes
יִכְפֶּה־ (yiḵ·peh-)
Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 3711: To bend, to tame, subdue

anger,
אָ֑ף (’āp̄)
Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 639: The nose, nostril, the face, a person, ire

and a covert
בַּ֝חֵ֗ק (ba·ḥêq)
Preposition-b, Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 2436: The bosom

bribe
וְשֹׁ֥חַד (wə·šō·ḥaḏ)
Conjunctive waw | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 7810: A present, bribe

[pacifies] great
עַזָּֽה׃ (‘az·zāh)
Adjective - feminine singular
Strong's 5794: Strong, vehement, harsh

wrath.
חֵמָ֥ה (ḥê·māh)
Noun - feminine singular
Strong's 2534: Heat, anger, poison


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