Revenge: Absalom
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Absalom, the third son of King David, is a prominent biblical figure whose life is marked by a quest for revenge, ultimately leading to rebellion and tragedy. His account is primarily found in the books of 2 Samuel, where his actions and motivations provide a complex narrative of familial strife, justice, and vengeance.

Background and Family Dynamics

Absalom was born to David and Maacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3). He was noted for his striking appearance, with the Bible describing him as having no physical blemish from head to toe (2 Samuel 14:25). Absalom's family life was fraught with tension, particularly following the incident involving his sister, Tamar.

The Incident with Amnon

The catalyst for Absalom's quest for revenge was the violation of his sister Tamar by their half-brother Amnon. Amnon, David's firstborn, became infatuated with Tamar and, through deceit, lured her into his quarters and raped her (2 Samuel 13:1-14). King David was furious when he heard of the incident, but he did not take action against Amnon, possibly due to his status as the firstborn (2 Samuel 13:21).

Absalom's Revenge

Absalom harbored a deep-seated hatred for Amnon following the assault on Tamar. He waited two years, biding his time and concealing his intentions. During a sheep-shearing event, Absalom invited all the king's sons, including Amnon, and ordered his servants to kill Amnon once he was in high spirits from wine (2 Samuel 13:23-28). The plan was executed, and Amnon was slain, leading to Absalom's flight to Geshur, where he stayed for three years (2 Samuel 13:37-38).

Return and Rebellion

After three years in exile, Absalom was brought back to Jerusalem through the intercession of Joab, David's military commander (2 Samuel 14:1-23). However, he did not see his father for another two years, until he forced a meeting by setting Joab's field on fire (2 Samuel 14:28-33).

Absalom's return to favor was short-lived, as he began to undermine David's authority. He positioned himself at the city gate, where he would intercept those seeking justice from the king, promising them better judgment if he were in power (2 Samuel 15:1-6). Over time, Absalom "stole the hearts of the men of Israel" (2 Samuel 15:6).

The Revolt

Absalom's ambition culminated in a full-scale rebellion against David. He declared himself king in Hebron, and many Israelites rallied to his cause (2 Samuel 15:10-12). David, upon hearing of the conspiracy, fled Jerusalem with his loyal followers (2 Samuel 15:13-17).

The ensuing conflict between Absalom's forces and David's loyalists reached its climax in the forest of Ephraim. Despite David's explicit instructions to "deal gently" with Absalom (2 Samuel 18:5), Joab, upon finding Absalom caught in an oak tree by his hair, killed him (2 Samuel 18:9-15).

Aftermath

Absalom's death marked the end of the rebellion, but it left a profound impact on David, who mourned deeply for his son, expressing his grief with the lament, "O my son Absalom! O Absalom, my son, my son!" (2 Samuel 18:33). The narrative of Absalom serves as a poignant reminder of the destructive nature of revenge and the familial discord it can sow.

Theological Implications

Absalom's account is often examined for its moral and theological implications. It highlights the consequences of unchecked sin, the failure of parental discipline, and the destructive power of vengeance. The narrative also underscores the importance of justice and the perils of taking matters into one's own hands, deviating from divine justice.
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2 Samuel 13:23-29
And it came to pass after two full years, that Absalom had sheep shearers in Baalhazor, which is beside Ephraim: and Absalom invited all the king's sons.
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Library

Chastisements.
... the most formidable person in Absalom's conspiracy, whose defection wounded him
so deeply, was no doubt driven to the usurper's side out of revenge for the ...
//christianbookshelf.org/maclaren/the life of david/xiv chastisements.htm

The Reign of David.
... brutal lusts. (3) Absalom treacherously murdered Ammon as a matter of revenge
for the outrage upon his sister, Tamar. (4) The rebellion ...
/.../tidwell/the bible period by period/chapter xi the reign of.htm

How David, when He had Recovered his Kingdom, was Reconciled to ...
... occasion of greater mischief, and hurt our affairs more than did Absalom himself;
do ... the death of his brother Asahel, which he seemed to revenge, afforded him ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 11 how david when.htm

David's Deserts
... The tragedies of his sons, of Amnon, of Absalom, are altogether ... Luxury, ambition,
revenge, vanity, recklessness of decency, open rebellion, disgrace them in ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/david/sermon iv davids deserts.htm

The Second Book
... of Nabal the Carmelite, since he himself postponed vengeance, he received his revenge
at once ... was seduced by the mad act of Amnon, and Amnon slain by Absalom. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/salvian/on the government of god/the second book.htm

Aron, Brother of Moses, 486, 487.
... Absalom, David's son, [17]4, [18]5; type of Judas the traitor, [19]4, [20]20 ... Detraction,
a stumbling-block to the weak, [276]188; must not seek revenge for, [277 ...
/.../augustine/exposition on the book of psalms/aron brother of moses 486.htm

Colossians iii. 7-May
... So that they who revenge are ungrateful. ... But I am reminded of others also that have
killed their brothers; when, for instance, Absalom killed Amnon the eldest ...
/.../homily viii colossians iii 7-may.htm

Home-Discipline.
... It is exercised because He loves them, not because He delights in revenge and in ...
of this defect caused him to cry out in bitter anguish, "Oh Absalom, my son ...
/.../philips/the christian home/chapter xix home-discipline.htm

Book 5 Footnotes
... ch.2., "That revenge is not evil, but that patience is more honorable.". ... [15] Of
this weight of Absalom's hair, how in twenty or thirty years it might well ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/book 5 footnotes.htm

The Wrath of God
... If it were such a misery for Absalom, that he might not see the King's face ... we wish
evil to others; it is a vermin that lives on blood; it studies revenge. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/watson/the ten commandments/3 3 the wrath of god.htm

Resources
What is the just war theory? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about grudges? | GotQuestions.org

How and when should we overlook an offense (Proverbs 19:11)? | GotQuestions.org

Revenge: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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