Hospitality: Laban
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Laban, a significant figure in the Old Testament, is often associated with themes of hospitality, family dynamics, and divine providence. He is introduced in the Book of Genesis as the brother of Rebekah and the father of Leah and Rachel. Laban's interactions with key patriarchal figures such as Jacob highlight the cultural and spiritual dimensions of hospitality in the ancient Near Eastern context.

Laban's Initial Hospitality to Abraham's Servant

Laban first appears in Genesis 24, when Abraham's servant arrives in Paddan-aram to find a wife for Isaac. Upon seeing the servant and the gifts he brought, Laban extends hospitality, saying, "Come, you who are blessed by the LORD. Why are you standing out here? I have prepared the house and a place for the camels" (Genesis 24:31). This act of hospitality is significant, as it sets the stage for Rebekah's marriage to Isaac, a union that is pivotal in the Abrahamic lineage.

Jacob's Arrival and Laban's Hospitality

Years later, Jacob, fleeing from his brother Esau, arrives at Laban's household. Laban welcomes Jacob warmly, saying, "Surely you are my bone and my flesh" (Genesis 29:14). Laban's hospitality is initially genuine, as he offers Jacob a place to stay and work. This reflects the cultural expectation of providing for relatives and strangers alike, a practice deeply rooted in the social and religious fabric of the time.

Hospitality and Deception

However, Laban's hospitality is later marred by deception. After Jacob serves Laban for seven years to marry Rachel, Laban deceives him by giving Leah as a bride instead. Laban justifies his actions by citing local customs, saying, "It is not our custom here to give the younger daughter in marriage before the older" (Genesis 29:26). Despite this breach of trust, Laban offers Jacob the opportunity to marry Rachel in exchange for another seven years of service, illustrating a complex interplay between hospitality, familial duty, and personal gain.

Laban's Continued Relationship with Jacob

Throughout Jacob's stay, Laban's hospitality is characterized by a mixture of generosity and self-interest. Laban acknowledges the blessings brought by Jacob's presence, stating, "The LORD has blessed me on account of you" (Genesis 30:27). Yet, he frequently changes Jacob's wages, demonstrating a lack of integrity. Despite these challenges, Jacob prospers, underscoring the theme of divine providence overriding human manipulation.

Departure and Covenant

When Jacob decides to leave Laban's household, tensions arise, but Laban ultimately pursues reconciliation. After a divine warning in a dream, Laban approaches Jacob not with hostility but with a desire for peace. They establish a covenant, marked by a heap of stones, as a witness between them. Laban declares, "May the LORD keep watch between you and me when we are absent from each other" (Genesis 31:49). This covenant reflects a return to the principles of hospitality and mutual respect, even amidst past grievances.

Conclusion

Laban's account in the Bible serves as a multifaceted exploration of hospitality. His initial acts of kindness are overshadowed by deceit and self-interest, yet the narrative ultimately returns to themes of reconciliation and divine oversight. Through Laban, the Bible illustrates the complexities of human relationships and the enduring importance of hospitality as a reflection of God's covenantal faithfulness.
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Genesis 24:31
And he said, Come in, you blessed of the LORD; why stand you without? for I have prepared the house, and room for the camels.
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Now, Rebecca, Having Long Been Barren, at Length, through the ...
... Then he betook himself to Laban, his mother's brother, and was kindly received by
him to share in his hospitality as the acknowledged son of his sister. ...
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Chapter xxiv
... Surely this is "hospitality without grudging" "a fine and rare virtue ... Now Rebekah
had a brother whose name was Laban, and Laban ran out to the man to the well ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xxiv.htm

Genesis
... In Laban, his Aramean kinsman, he met his match, and almost his master, in ... for example,
must lie between the God who partakes of the hospitality of Abraham ...
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The Honoured Guest
... It was not with cold civility, but with cordial hospitality that he greeted him. ...
Even churlish Laban received Eliezer with courtesy when he saw the presents he ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 61 1915/the honoured guest.htm

From Abraham to Egypt.
... He was treated by Laban just as he himself had treated his brother ... There is great
hospitality and the marriage relation was respected by such heathen rulers as ...
/.../tidwell/the bible period by period/chapter iv from abraham to.htm

The Letter of the Church of Rome
... 12 Because of her faith and hospitality Rahab the harlot was saved ... He went to Laban
and became his slave, and to him there were given the twelve scepters of the ...
/.../richardson/early christian fathers/the letter of the church.htm

Homilies on Philippians, Colossians, and Thessalonians.
... heard for Sodom, [668]358; his reward greater for his not knowing the future,
[669]361; had children, but was not covetous, [670]369; his hospitality, [671]ib ...
/.../homilies on philippians colossians and.htm

Homilies on the Statues.
... Horse, inferior to man in the foot, [1315]416. Hospitality, of Abraham, [1316]349;
of Job, [1317]442. ... Jacob, his care of Laban's sheep, [1379]354. ...
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The Flight into Egypt and St. John the Baptist in the Desert
... It was near this tree that Jacob buried Laban's idols ... people and had been given to
robbery, but they received the Holy Family well and showed them hospitality. ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/xvi the flight into egypt.htm

The First Chaldaean Empire and the Hyksos in Egypt
History Of Egypt, Chaldaea, Syria, Babylonia, and Assyria, V 4. <. ...
/.../chapter ithe first chaldaean empire.htm

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